Church News December/January

December is always a busy month in the life of the church and this year was no exception. Outside the tree surgeons were dealing with the big old chestnut near the entrance to the cemetery, trying to bring it back under control after 30 years of growth since it’s last haircut. Our biggest fear is that a branch will come down in a storm and damage the boundary wall, the bell tower or worse still, fall on someone’s head as they are walking along the path. So in a funny sort of way we were let off lightly, when in the process of lowering a big sawn off branch from the top of the tree, the thin end swung round and decapitated the castellation from the parapet on the top of the tower. Luckily the path had been closed to pedestrians and a clean break and a fall onto grass meant little damage was done. Not exactly good for the blood pressure though! So it’s with relief that the two stones have now been successfully reinstated.

We were able to get the Christmas tree up in church and decorated (thank you Janette) for the First Sunday in Advent which was also a communion service for all three churches in the benefice. Refreshments were served afterwards and we all had a good catch up with our friends from Brize and Carterton. The following week the outside trees were erected and dressed with lights, adding a really festive appearance to the approach along the path to the church and cemetery beyond. Thank you Richard for crawling around in all weathers fixing the cables and making everything work properly.

As usual Santa Claus paid us a visit last Saturday and gave out presents from his grotto in the Lady Chapel. We are always pleased to have him in Black Bourton and I am sure the children enjoyed his visit too. After the present giving we drank mulled wine and ate mince pies and sung all our favourite carols with Simon at the organ. As we have so few children of our own in the village I must thank those who came from the other churches in the benefice to read the passages from the bible and join in the service. We very much appreciate their boosting our numbers.

Rev Barry will be on holiday from Christmas Day for a month so on January 11th, the first Sunday in Epiphany, we will be welcoming Associate Archdeacon Rev Jane Haslam to St Mary’s to take our Holy Communion service, which I believe is the first time she has ever done this for us. So please come along and give her your support!

A Happy and Peaceful New Year to you all.

Church News November/December

We welcomed our military friends for our annual Remembrance Service both at the memorial and at the church and afterwards at the Vines for light refreshments. We are privileged to have the war graves in our churchyard and also to have the commitment and support from our military neighbours when it comes to this important time of the year. It was unusual to see all the chaps in their fatigues this year as normally they are very formally dressed in their Number Ones but it made not a scrap of difference as the church was full and we were very ably led by Jeremy Lane. And everyone sang at the top of their voices which was excellent!

A big thank you to all who contributed to the Christmas Bazaar last Saturday whether by manning tables, making cakes, donating items for sale or helping with the general setting up. In spite of the horrid weather, it was good to see so many people in the church enjoying a morning of festivity and friendliness with a variety of gifts and handmade items for sale and some very tasty refreshments.  I am happy to report that all your efforts enabled us to raise nearly £1,000 which is absolutely amazing and will help us to continue making our lovely church a nice place to gather.

This Sunday is the beginning of Advent and so we mark this day by having a joint benefice service at 10.30 a.m. Do come along and meet our friends and neighbours from our two sister churches and enjoy some tea and cake afterwards. Christmas seems to come round quicker and quicker each year so before we know it we will be enjoying some lovely choral music from the Voicebox Choir from Witney (a big hit last year) and our own Santa’s Grotto and Carols complete with mince pies and mulled wine. Our Christmas Eve Holy Communion service is at 10 p.m on the 24th and I am pleased to say we have Phil Waite playing the organ for us so that we can all have a hearty sing song of all our favourite carols. Details of all the above in this newsletter so hope to see you at one or all events.

A very Merry Christmas one and all!!

 

Church News October/November

You will no doubt have noticed the intensity of the colour of the leaves on the trees and bushes around us not to mention the carpet they are creating under our feet as they gradually fall to the ground. I mentioned last month the abundance of fruit and berries this year and so it seems that the leaves are not to be outdone in the colours they are showing. I say this because the church flower team created the most wonderful arrangements for harvest festival using all the reds, yellows and ambers of the bushes and berries around us together with the bold colours of the late flowering perennials which have been spectacular this year. Thank you to all those who contributed and also to Christine Pope who laid out a country scene in the porch reminding us of the autumn bounty which we are lucky enough to be surrounded by.

The main events for November are our usual Remembrance Day service in church preceded by the laying of wreaths at the War Memorial. This starts at 10.50 and moves to the church for the service led by Jeremy Lane and attended by a good number of our military neighbours from RAF Brize Norton. It is a moving service and gives us all a chance to remember and reflect on the courage of the men who fought for our freedom in two World Wars and who in the end made the ultimate sacrifice.

In error last month, I mentioned that the Christmas Bazaar was  on the 14th November so I  must quickly point out that it is Saturday 22nd November from 10.30 till 1.30 p.m.  There will be lots of handmade items to buy for Christmas including crafts and gifts made by Niki Clarke and cushions and stocking fillers made by Lene Bussell as well as other contributions. There is a tombola and a raffle, some delicious cakes and preserves and a chance to chat to village folk over a cup of tea, a slice of cake or even a glass of mulled wine and a mince pie.  All money raised goes towards improvements for the comfort and use of the church, not just for worshippers but for all those who use the church as a place to meet, whether it be clubs, coffee mornings or concerts! And if you haven’t got cash (and to avoid disappointment!) we now have a card reader which will happily take your payment. Please come along and support us – all your contributions are very welcome and we would love to see you all at this happy and festive occasion.

Donations for the tombola can be left with Doreen Hart (01993 844124) before the event and cakes or produce to Wendy Taylor or Doreen either the day before or on the morning.

To round off the news this month, the following week we come to the First Sunday in Advent (can’t believe we are hurtling towards Christmas so fast!) and as it’s also the fifth Sunday in the month it falls on St Mary’s to hold the Joint Benefice service. This is the only service held in the benefice on that morning so all our friends from St John’s and St Britius will be joining us for communion and some coffee and refreshments afterwards. Another get together with friends before we start the countdown to the Christmas activities!!

Church News September/October

If you have fruit trees in your garden you will have noticed how heavy the crop is this year despite the lack of water throughout the summer. The hedgerows are laden with blackberries, sloes, and crab apples and it seems that everyone is busy making the most of this bumper harvest by making jams and chutneys and freezing the apples, plums and pears. Apple pressing and BBQ organised by the BBVA has been brought forward to next Saturday October 4th at 1pm because of the glut!

So this brings me to Harvest Festival which is on Sunday 12th October at 10.30 and is our annual thanksgiving for the abundance of food we see all around us. Let us also not forget our farmers who work so hard tilling the land to bring food to our tables against all the awful conditions that nature can throw at them. For some years now we have asked for your donations so that we can support our local Besom food bank in Carterton and Witney so once again I ask for your generosity by providing food donations for this worthy cause. Obviously we can’t pass on the bounty from the trees and bushes around us but any nonperishable food will be most welcome. You can include things like canned baked beans, tomatoes, lentils, beans, peas, pasta, rice, biscuits, tinned fish or meat, breakfast cereals or packets of sauces, coffee, tea and sugar. I almost forgot jams,  marmalades, pickle –  the list is endless but you get the idea. Items can be left in the church on the Friday or Saturday prior to the service or I can collect if you would like me to. Thank you in advance and I hope to see you in church that day.

There will no doubt be a notice elsewhere in the newsletter from the Parish Council about the meeting in church on  Weds 15th October 7 p.m. for a discussion about using a defibrillator. We are lucky enough to have had one in our village for some years but it would be useful to know more about it and what we should do if we ever need to use it. I urge you to attend this meeting – it’s important for us all to be aware of this facility should we need it.

The Gardening Club continues with it’s autumn programme in October with a talk on ‘Autumn Planting’ by Paul Green from Gloucester. The club have just completed their first year and have done well with coffee mornings and guest speakers and a trip out to Friars Court. New members are welcome and the meetings are always very enjoyable with coffee and biscuits for all.

Looking further ahead we will be holding our popular Christmas Bazaar in November, more details next month, but please contribute if you can by making a cake or letting us have some produce from your garden or even a raffle prize! There will be a tombola so smaller items for this are welcome too. Tell your friends and pop the date in your diary Sat November 15th from 10.30 till 1 p.m. in the church so that you don’t miss it.

Services this month are Harvest Festival on Sunday 12th Oct 10.30 and Evensong on Sunday 26th 6 p.m.

Before I go I would like to say congratulations to Olivia and Aaron who are getting married at St Mary’s on Friday 24th October at 11 a.m. We wish them both a wonderful wedding day and hope that they have may years of happiness together.

Church News August/September

Well no one can say we haven’t had a good summer with non stop sunshine for months on end. Now we are all back from holidays and children start school for a new year, we move into the autumn schedule with busy weeks ahead. This Sunday there is a benefice communion service at St Britius at 10.30 so if you can spare the time do go along for worship and fellowship with our friends from Brize and Carterton.

The Film Club starts it’s new season on 4th September at 7.p.m. with a showing of ‘Annie Hall’ – have a read about this film in the Film Club section.

The weekend after the fete we have the Ride and Stride which takes place on Saturday 13th throughout the day but this also coincides with the Gardening Club coffee morning so it will be a lovely day of saying hello to our local neighbours as well as those from a bit further afield. Nikki is helping to organise so let her know if you are free to do an hour in the front porch.

I am pleased to say that the porch roof has been replaced and looks fantastic. We have also had some pointing done to the porch walls and will continue to work our way around the main body of the church as and when finances allow.

Work on refurbishing the path starts soon.

For those of you who would like to learn more about the bible and what it tells us, we start our autumn session of Bible Study on Tues 16th Sept at 5.30 at my house alternating weekly at Jeremy’s. These sessions are very informal and you can join in as much or as little as you want to, but it’s interesting to hear how the scriptures written thousands of years ago have so much relevance in our modern day life.

Normal services are Holy Communion on 14th Sept 10.30 a.m. and Evensong on 28th Sept 6 p.m. and we’ll be holding Harvest Festival in October as usual, more details next month.

Church News July/August

Now that the schools have broken up for the summer, August is the time for a well earned break perhaps enjoying the late summer having family holidays or making the most of the warm weather at home.  At St Mary’s we settle into another quiet period much like July with just our usual services twice a month.  As it is a month with five Sundays in it the benefice service will take place on 31st August at 10.30 round at St Britius. Let me know if you would like a lift. Before that Rev Barry is holding a benefice BBQ in the garden of the rectory in Carterton on 17th Aug at 12.30 p.m. Everyone is welcome so do join in the fun if you are free that day.

As I mentioned last month we have the marriage of Tony and Julie on 25th July, this Friday in fact, and then we will see scaffolding erected around the porch so that the roof can be replaced and some pointing carried out to the walls. Please be careful when accessing the church during this time. Once that has all been completed the parking area and path through the churchyard to the cemetery will be refurbished with new pea grit so we will be very smart indeed!

Our last service this month is Evensong on Sunday and we will have Lyndsay Baker taking that for us. Join me if you can – it’s a lovely way to finish off the weekend.

 

Church News June/July

If you managed to call in at the church a couple of weekends ago you will have seen the gorgeous flower arrangements that our flower team produced for our annual flower festival. Each one was carefully thought out depicting so many crafts that we are familiar with and beautifully presented with all sorts of props including what looked like family heirlooms. Thank you one and all for your efforts and for the huge amount of pleasure you gave to all those who came to visit.  We had so many compliments from those in the village who came and from visitors who came from a bit further afield and with our refreshments and donations in the demi-john and card reader, we raised an amazing £423 for our church funds. Well done everyone including all those who made cakes and gave their time manning the tea table. A lovely weekend was had by all!

As we move into July we are looking at family holidays and a quieter time in the village. We will have our two normal services on the second and fourth Sunday but at the end of the month we are pleased to welcome Julie and Tony to St Mary’s for their marriage. This lovely couple had first decided to get married here back in 2021 but the ongoing problems with Covid scuppered their plans. A new date was planned for 2023 but was again beset by unavoidable problems and once again their wedding day was put on hold. Imagine how delighted I was to get a message from Tony last year finally fixing a firm date so I am thrilled that they can finally take their vows in St Mary’s and make their dreams come true. As always, we wish them a fantastic wedding day and hope that they have a very happy future together.

I will sign off much as I did last month, reminding you of our benefice service this coming Sunday at 10.30 a.m., which is our new time for communion in the future. Light refreshments will be served after the service so we may all exchange fellowship with our friends in St John’s and St Britius. I hope to see you all there.

Church News May/June

Celebrating The 80th anniversary of VE Day

How lucky we were last month with all the sunshine taking us through the bank holidays and as we move into June we will be looking forward to the long light evenings and the borders full of our favourite summer flowers. Speaking of which, it is time for St Mary’s to hold the popular Flower Festival to show off some of those lovely blooms. The theme this year is ‘Home Crafts’ and I am sure we will be interested to see the flower arrangers interpretation of this. The church will be open on Saturday 14th and Sunday 15th June between 10a.m. and 4p.m. on both days with refreshments available on both days. Our flower ladies work hard to produce some beautiful displays in the church all year round but for the flower festival they pull out all the stops. So what better than to come along and appreciate their work with a slice of cake and a cup of tea and enjoy the magnificence of their creations.

 

This week saw Ascension Day which is the 40th day after the Resurrection and then 10 days later we have Pentecost. At our service on 8th June I am sure Rev Barry will have some special liturgy related to this important day which is regarded as the start of the church’s mission to the world. Back in the day we called it Whitsun and and there was a bank holiday especially for it but I expect the powers that be thought that two bank holidays in the previous month was quite enough! Rev Barry will be holding a prayer initiative from 29th May to 8th June and if you pop into the church you will find some booklets on the font. Please click on this link to Barry’s videos.

From July our communion service on the second Sunday of the month will be held at 10.30 a.m. by popular demand. This will be permanent unless we can make it even earlier when we eventually appoint a new Team Vicar to help Barry with his workload. Let me have your thoughts on this either way! St Mary’s will also resume hosting the benefice services in rotation with St John’s and St Britius on the fifth Sundays of the month starting on 29th June at 10.30. We held a couple last year and it is always good to see our friends from the other two parishes join us for worship so do try and come along if you can.

Church News April/May

I don’t need to tell you what a busy month it has been in church during April, with Lent and Holy Week dominating the proceedings. On Maundy Thursday we said goodbye to Mandy Nixon in a truly uplifting service led by Jeremy Lane and I think the majority of the village were there to take part in this important ritual. She was a good friend to many with her bubbly personality and boundless energy and was always up for helping at the fete or making us all laugh in the pub. We send Dave our love and support and hope that he can take some comfort in knowing how much Mandy was loved in this community.

Our Easter Day communion service was led very thoughtfully and powerfully by Mark Thomas in a church full of sunlight and spring flowers, which after the austerity of Good Friday was such a joy to see. We hope we will see more of him in future and Keri too of course.

It will hardly be five minutes since the Easter break when the May Bank Holiday will be upon us –  do any of you remember dancing round the maypole at school or am I showing may age? Like a lot of the holidays we celebrate, it’s origins are connected to the church and the turning of the religious calendar denoting a celebration of spring, rebirth and fertility. In Roman times May Day  marked the start of the summer season so I am sure that we are all hoping for warm sunny days to come.

Check out the dates and times for some of the things that are happening in the church during May – the Parish Council have their AGM, the gardening club have a guest speaker and the film club gets under way too.  There is the local election on the 1st May and a coffee morning on the 10th and let’s not forget our usual two services of Holy Communion and Evensong. All the dates and times are in this edition of the newsletter so I hope to see lots of you at some of these events. And to top it all off, we get another bank holiday at the end of the month!

Church News March/April

We are almost at the 4th Sunday in Lent which in the Christian religion, since the middle ages, is Mothering Sunday and back then it was a day to honour our ‘mother churches’, visiting the church or chapel where you received the sacrament of baptism and became a ‘child of the church’. In the last century the observance of Mothering Sunday expanded to honour not only Mother Church, but ‘mothers of earthly homes’, the Mother of Jesus and Mother Nature. Nowadays the American term Mothers Day is more widely used and has become a celebration of mothers and motherhood. So our service this Sunday at 11.00 a.m. will reflect the very special place mothers have in our lives and we are delighted to welcome Lyndsay to take the service which I believe will have a little surprise at the end.

We will have an extra communion service on Palm Sunday at 11 a.m. and going into Holy Week Compline will be said from Monday to Thursday evenings at 6 p.m. Don’t forget to come and listen to Jeremy on Good Friday at 3 p.m. who will read some excepts from St Matthew’s Gospel accompanied by music from St Matthew’s Passion. Written by Bach, the Passion is the story Matthew tells us in his Gospel  (Ch 26 & 27) set to music in the most glorious way. This will be a beautiful and moving interlude to start the Easter weekend so we look forward to seeing you in church for this special event. At 4 p.m. at our sister church, St Britius, Brize Norton, there is a benefice Tenebrae service. This is a service that features the gradual extinguishing of candles and readings about Jesus’ passion, culminating in a period of darkness and a loud noise, symbolizing Christ’s death and the subsequent resurrection.

On Easter Saturday Rev Barry will be holding a quiet vigil in church between 10 and 12 noon. This is for anyone who would like to pop in and have a few minutes quiet contemplation and prayer – drop in when you like and stay as long as you like, it’s up to you. By then Rev Barry will have been licenced at St John’s Church as our Rector and will soon move into the Rectory which is behind the church in Carterton. We send our congratulations and wish him many happy years of ministry in our benefice.

My last offering is an invitation from our friends at St Britius to an Easter Tea in the Humble Bumble Cafe in Brize Norton on Saturday 26th April. These gatherings are always good fun and a way to socialise with our friends in the benefice and the tea served is really scrumptious. You won’t want supper afterwards, I can guarantee! Let me know if you would like to come before Easter if possible – it starts at 4 p.m. and tickets are £15.